
Mother Your Nervous System
I help people rewire their fight/flight/freeze/fawn response.
Reflex-Based Nervous System Coaching (Somatic / Primitive Reflex Integration) Online and In-Person in Kelowna
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Reflex-Based Nervous System Coaching (Somatic / Primitive Reflex Integration) Online and In-Person in Kelowna
Most nervous system work gives you tools to get calm.
Nervous System Recode helps your body change what it does automatically ~ so you have more options in the moment, less autopilot, and a life that feels simpler to live.
Most people try to manage it with regulation tools ~ breathing, grounding, calming ~ those are helpful, but they don’t always change what your body does automatically.
It’s not a nervous system reset where you just calm down ~ it changes the body’s instinctive option menu for how it reacts to alarms.
Before you had words, your nervous system was built through primitive reflexes ~ the body’s original response circuitry.
When we focus on somatic reflex integration, we don’t just calm the body…
We rewire the pathways that SHIFT your stress reactions.
I work with the body’s reflex-and-circuit patterns so in a split second you respond differently without overthinking.
When your reactions change, your behaviors change... Behaviors are the highest form of truthful communication and when your body starts showing up differently... your identity catches up.
You will stop living from the old alarm system, and you will start rebuilding your life from integrity ~ physically rewriting your story.
I was stuck in survival mode until I learned how to recode my own nervous system through reflex integration.
Now I help women upgrade their “option menu” for stress ~ so in a split second, your body can choose a different response without you having to think your way through it.
We’ll discuss your stress loop and choose the most effective path so your nervous system can change the default response.
You’ll leave with:

If this is your first Valentine’s Day after a breakup and you are afraid your body will abandon you ~ it's NOT MINDSET or WILLPOWER ~ it's A REFLEX!
Apply here to join our online group coaching & WhatsApp texting support will help you get through the next 30 days with dignity.
Starting February 5th , 2026 ~ 7:30pm MST
Everyone’s talking about regulating the nervous system ~ fight, flight, freeze, or fawn. But that’s just one floor of the house.
I created a method called Nervous System Recode. It’s designed to shift the body’s instinctive response pattern at the circuit level ~ the part of you that reacts before you even think.
Before you knew who you were… Your body & mind was developing itself through primitive reflexes and these circuits are the foundation of all movements.
These reflexes are the HOW you respond in fight/ flight/ freeze or fawn, the next step after your body sounds the alarm.
This is where my work begins. Not at the top floor, but at the foundation, the reflexive reactions that are your original blueprint for safety, connection, and belonging.
When we focus on somatic reflex integration, we don’t just calm the body… We create new menu of options.
I literally help people rewire their fight/flight/freeze response ~ it’s not just calming tools, it’s training your body’s default reaction so you have more options in the moment.

~ Michelle Carrie
When your reactions change, your behaviors change. Behaviors are communication—and when your body starts showing up differently, your identity catches up.
You stop living from the old alarm system, and you start rebuilding your life from integrity—like you’re physically rewriting your story
1710 Ellis Street #19, Kelowna, British Columbia V1Y 2B5, Canada
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